By default, Bonsai lets you know if you have upcoming invoices to be sent, as well as what invoices you have outstanding.  To disable these, visit your settings where you can fine-tune your email settings.
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Automatic reminders for outstanding invoices to your client are turned on by default.  To turn them off for a given project, go to that project's setting page, and uncheck this box on the right side of the page: